There are certain things you are doing in your relationship that are actually uncalled for. You may hurt your partner’s feelings with things you do or say without you knowing.
This article will assist you on how to make your relationship healthy. Read carefully and try as much as possible to find where you are found wanting and try to make corrections as soon as possible.
1. Comparing Your Ex To Your Partner
To the best of my knowledge, comparing your ex to your partner means saying your ex is better than him or her in some ways or telling your partner that there are things your ex did for you in the past that he or she doesn’t do for you.
Saying such things to your partner will make he or she feel like you still love your ex very much or that you are not happy with the relationship.
If there are behaviors that you don’t like about your partner then talk to him or her about it, don’t mention your ex while correcting your partner it may hurt their feelings.
Few friends have complained to me that their partner sometimes mention their ex in their presence which hurt their feelings, which is why I decided to write an article on this.
2. Getting Too Close To Your Ex
You should not be too close to your ex when you are in a new relationship. It will make your partner feel bad, so it is not healthy for your relationship.
For instance, chatting or calling your ex almost everyday, hanging out with your ex, talking to your ex about things happening in your present relationship, talking to your ex about almost everything that is happening in your life is not healthy for your relationship. You should talk to your partner about your life or your plans not your ex. Your ex is your past and your partner is your present.
3. Lack Of Trust
According to an article on greatist.com, titled “20 Bad Habits That Could Hurt Your Relationship”, trust is what makes the relationship between two people work.
Trust that your partner is sincere, respect their privacy, and Don’t snoop through texts, emails, or bedroom drawers. You would only be trying to ruin the relationship yourself.
I believe this concise article will assist you to know those things that are not healthy for you in a relationship, I wish you a smooth and healthy relationship. Share with your loved ones and anticipate the next content.
