5 years after exchanging marital vows, several medical treatment and midnight prayers, we still hope in God for miracles.
Three months ago, my husband pleaded with me to resign from work so that I will have time for family affairs. I obliged for solution is all that I seek and nothing else, not knowing that staying at home will land me to what I never expected.
After several thoughts, I decided to approach him to know what went wrong and it turned our that my nonchalant attitude towards my hair and my hair net nearly ruin my marriage.
My husband started avoiding me and our matrimonial room.
“My love, you always nod off at the sitting room, getting to three months now, intimacy is now in past tense mood let alone making love to me, is this how we will makes babies, by sleeping separately and distancing from each other, I resigned for us to focus and fight this childlessness issue together but your attitude towards it baffles me.
His reply ” like I told you, work is hectic this period and am doing everything humanly possible to put food on the table, meet up with bills and for sustenance, so try and understand”.
After several questions and argument, he blasted it on my face, that my hair and hair net stinks and each time he come closer to me, awful smile chase him away from me.
How come I never noticed? How come he kept it all to himself? Is he tired of me or afraid that I will get upset if he tells me? I was thinking something bad happened Little did I know that my hair and my hair net has been the cause of his actions,
I resigned my jobs for reasons you already know, started staying at home to avoid being tired when its time for the real deal to start but my hair and hair net nearly cost me my home.
As a house wife, I got loss of myself especially my hair for I have no place to go, so I always pack my hair and cover it with hair net and relax at home.
For three months, water has not touched my hair let alone my hair net. How much is hair net that I can’t afford as many as I wish to have?
At the other hand, communication plays a vital role. My husband started avoiding me without me knowing the reason, I thought its pressure from work not knowing that our matrimonial home disgust him and informing me scares him for he think I will take it as an offensive act.
Family that lacks communication lacks peace and harmony.