Every child grows up with the idea of the kind of family they want.
This can be as a result of a movie they watched, the parenting they get, or even from the lifestyle of their neighbours.
All of the aforementioned can be positive or negative. They see the way their neighbour treats his wife, and hearing that it is bad, the boy child can say to himself,
”I will never do this to my wife”.
He may love the way his parents live and desire to have a family just like that.
The same way every girl dreams of a big wedding. While growing up we all have in one way or another thought of the kind of family we will like to have.
No matter what it is that you have dreamt of, the end result is you are happy.
Even though everyone has different dreams and wishes, all can be linked to happiness.
Everyone wants to be happy and in reality everyone deserves to be happy.
I tell you today that you can have your dream family, it may not be exactly the way you pictured it while growing up but I can assure you of a happy and blissful family.
I have heard someone say it is easy to marry but difficult to keep marriage.
My answer to that is…it depends on who you are and the person you are with.
Marriage works if two people who are in it are determined to make it work. If the other person has lost interest, I tell you no matter how much you try, you might not get results.
Some people jump from one relationship to another in pursuit of getting the right person. I can tell you you are taking it the wrong way. I am of the opinion that it is better to start a relationship as friends, that way you get to see the person just the he is.
At this point the person is not pretending or trying to please you at all cost.
Many people have decided to settle down in 2022, a lot of stickers and memes have been going round.
My advice is “don’t let that push you”. Look before you leap.
Take your time and achieve the family of your dream.